What It Really Means to Love Your Dog
"While we always say we 'love our dogs,' too often we treat them as if they exist only for our pleasure and convenience. We ignore their very real inborn needs and desires—for exercise, discipline, and affection. Too often, my clients give affection, affection, and affection, because it's easier and it's what they want in the moment. I try to teach them that to truly love a dog, you must learn to fulfill that animal's necessities before your own."
— Lessons from the Pack: Stories of the Dogs Who Changed My Life, Cesar Millan, page 62
As dog lovers, we’ve all heard the phrase, “I love my dog.” It’s something we say with pride, and of course, it’s true—we adore our furry companions. But what does it actually mean to love your dog? Is it just about giving them cuddles, treats, and a cozy place to sleep? Or does it go deeper than that?
True love for your dog means giving them the tools they need to live their best life, and that starts with training. Yet, all too often, we see owners who genuinely care for their dogs but hesitate when it comes to training. The reasons vary: “It’s too expensive,” “I don’t think it’s necessary,” or “I’ll just figure it out myself.” But here’s the hard truth: loving your dog without committing to their training is like saying you want the best for them without taking the steps to make it happen.
The True Purpose of Training
Training isn’t just about teaching your dog to sit, stay, or heel. It’s about addressing behavioral issues, setting up good habits, and building a foundation of trust and communication between you and your dog. Training gives your dog clarity and confidence in what’s expected of them, reducing confusion and frustration for both of you.
When you invest in training, you’re helping your dog:
Work through behavioral challenges like anxiety, aggression, or excessive barking.
Develop good habits such as leash manners, recall, and proper greetings.
Experience a higher quality of life by creating structure and reducing stress.
In essence, training is a form of love—it’s a gift that allows your dog to thrive and strengthens the bond you share.
Quality of Life Starts with Training
Imagine your dog struggling with anxiety every time you leave the house, or being unable to enjoy walks because of leash pulling or reactivity. These aren’t just minor inconveniences; they’re signs that your dog is stressed and needs guidance. Training addresses these issues head-on, giving your dog the tools they need to navigate the world with confidence.
A well-trained dog is a happy dog. They’re able to go on adventures, interact safely with people and other animals, and fully participate in your life. Isn’t that what we all want for our furry companions?
Strengthening the Bond Between Dog and Owner
One of the most rewarding aspects of training is the connection it builds between you and your dog. Training isn’t just about commands; it’s about communication. It’s about learning to understand your dog’s needs, body language, and emotions. In turn, your dog learns to trust you as their leader and partner.
This mutual understanding deepens your relationship in ways that go beyond words. When your dog looks to you for guidance, follows your cues, and feels secure in your presence, you’ll know the power of a bond built on trust and respect.
The Cost of Not Training
We often hear that training is “too expensive” or “not worth it.” But let’s flip the script: what is the cost of not training your dog?
Lack of Recall: Without proper recall training, your dog may run into dangerous situations, like running into the street, risking injury or even death. This can be a major safety concern for both your dog and others.
Ingestion of Harmful Items: If your dog isn’t trained to avoid certain foods or objects, they may eat something harmful, leading to costly vet bills for treatments or surgeries. Prevention through training can save you money and stress.
Destruction of Property: Untrained dogs often chew on furniture, shoes, or personal belongings, which can lead to significant expenses replacing destroyed items. Training your dog to behave properly helps protect your home and belongings.
Behavioral problems that worsen over time, potentially leading to rehoming or worse.
Missed opportunities for socialization and outings because your dog isn’t manageable in public.
Frustration and stress for both you and your dog due to a lack of understanding and communication.
In the grand scheme of things, training is an investment in your dog’s future and your peace of mind. It’s a commitment that pays dividends for years to come.
Love Is Action, Not Just Affection
It’s easy to show love through affection—belly rubs, treats, and snuggles on the couch. But true love requires action. It means stepping up to meet your dog’s needs, even when it’s inconvenient or challenging. It means recognizing that your dog’s well-being depends on your willingness to provide structure, guidance, and training.
Training isn’t always easy, and it’s not a one-size-fits-all process. It takes time, effort, and often the help of a professional. But the rewards are undeniable: a happier, healthier, and more harmonious life for you and your dog.
Partnering with Professionals
At The EveryDay K9, we believe that training is one of the greatest acts of love you can give your dog. Our balanced training approach is designed to meet each dog’s unique needs, addressing behavioral challenges while fostering trust and respect. We work with both dogs and their owners to create a partnership that lasts a lifetime.
If you’re ready to show your dog what true love looks like, let’s talk. Together, we can help your dog overcome obstacles, build positive habits, and live their best life—with you by their side.
